A Christmas Present Twenty-Three Years in the Making
I graduated high school in May of 1986. In June of 1986, less than a month later, I was standing on yellow footprints outside of Receiving Barracks, Marine Corps Recruit Depot (MCRD), San Diego, CA. I was starting a journey that was both a way for me to change my life, and an escape from the life I was in. I like to think more the former than the latter, but frankly which was the greater motivator usually depended on the day.
There were three primary reasons I went into the Marine Corps:
- I thought they were the coolest.
- I wanted to get out of my hometown as I didn’t feel it offered me the opportunities I was looking for.
- I hated going to school. The thought of continuing on to university made my physically ill, as did the thought of working at the fiberglass plant or farming. There is nothing wrong with either of those, but they most certainly were NOT for me.
I made the right decision for me on all three counts… the Marines ARE the coolest, I did find the opportunities I was looking for, and it wasn’t by doing anything that was available to me where I grew up… at least not readily available.
After several years in the Marine Corps, I started to realize that even in that world there were advantages to having a college degree. In many cases it wasn’t even really about the education one received while getting the degree, but it was more about the fact you completed it; that you had the sheepskin on your wall. So I signed up for some classes… the general education type stuff that is needed for every degree. My first two classes were “Introduction to Business” and “Micro Economics”. Then the first Gulf War hit and that was the end of that for a while. I didn’t go back to school for the rest of my time in the Marines.
Enter the private sector… I was fortunate to get on with a company that provided professional services for networking. This organization provided high-level consulting services to companies (many of them Fortune 500) that required two things:
- The ability to actually perform your job
- The ability to document what you were doing
My time with this company taught me that in most cases there are significant differences between one who has just completed school and can tell you why something should, or should not, function as it does, and one who can actually make it work at 3:00 AM after being woken from a dead sleep with little actual knowledge of the specific environment, but years of experience. When your company is losing $300,000 per hour, you want the latter person I just described, not the former. I was fortunate to be a highly-skilled professional, degree aside.
My current employer is very big on educational credentials, for a number of reasons, but like most companies, they often look for people who can actually do the job more than people who understand the theory of it all. And I appreciated that for several years until I realized…
Not everyone thinks the same, and not every job is created equal.
As my time with the company progressed, the limitations I had put on myself became more and more apparent… positions within the company that I felt I would enjoy, and that I knew I could contribute to the good of the company through, were unattainable to me because I didn’t have a basic requirement: A degree. It was clearly time to fix that.
So in February, 2006 I stepped back into a classroom, starting from near zero, and undertook the experience. As some know, in my previous blog incarnation (which no longer exists) and through tweets I had documented my experience with going back to school. Suffice it to say that while I now saw more value in obtaining the degree, the process of going through classroom education has not become any more attractive to me. I love learning and take every opportunity I can to explore my world, to increase my understanding of it, and expand my knowledge. But I prefer to NOT do that by sitting in class for semesters on end if I can help it. Regardless, though, I did. Because it was the right thing for me to do.
FLASH FORWARD: December 17th, 2009. It’s 3:20 PM on a Thursday. I’ve just walked out after finishing my last test. By last test I mean the test that has ended the session providing me credit hour 118, 119 and 120 of my Bachelor of Science in Information Techology (BSIT). I’ve passed the test. I’m done. I’ve completed everything I need to do. I’ve completed all my requirements. It will take a few days for the results of my test to post and be counted towards my degree.
Yesterday I logged in and saw this:
See That??? ZERO CREDITS REMAINING!!
Jody was standing next to me when I looked at this for the first time. She was proud of me. I have already told my mom I was done and I know she and my dad are proud of me.
I’m more proud of myself than anybody. Not because I’m a prideful person, but because in this case I know I deserve to be proud of what I’ve done. Over the course of the last three years and ten months there have been approximately eight months that I did not go to school for various reasons (travel, classes rescheduled, holidays, etc…). So it took me just over three years to complete my curriculum. But the fact is, while having a full-time career that took significantly more than forty hours a week, being a father to a teenager, being a husband to my wife, a friend, a son and everything else I have been, I’ve done this. Yes, I’m proud.
There are few better Christmas gifts I could have given myself.
PS – And oh yes, there will be a party.



